I'm back in New York and after all my travels I'm on a mission to do something with my thin, scraggly, boring hair. I am currently growing it out but want to enhance the color, which is currently the brassy result of several mishaps. I am naturally not too far off from my current color but just a more dirty blonde, so going lighter won't be that hard. Do you think I should keep it a more natural shade and just lighten it a bit or try something more extreme like the first photo, which I am kind of in love with. Or should I try something very different like a red or dark chestnut/reddy brown?? I kind of love Blake Lively's hair right now, but I also love the page girl hair cut AND color of the girl in the bottom photo . Ahhhh HAIR CRISIS! Is this an indication that I should put down the hair die and get a therapist instead??? ;)